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While basically everyone knows not to wear white, can you wear black to a wedding?
The shade used to be off-limits, reserved solely for those in mourning: In the Victorian era, widows were expected to wear black for at least one year after the death of a spouse (or longer: Queen Victoria wore it for the rest of her life after the death of Prince Albert). Meanwhile, families who had experienced the loss of a parent, grandparent, or sibling did so for at least six months. Attending parties and other celebratory occasions was strongly discouraged during that period—so no one wore black to weddings because, well, if you were in black, you weren’t attending them in the first place.
By the 1920s, such societal sartorial standards had fallen by the wayside, aided by the progressive movement as well as by WWI: “Mourning was abandoned by many people at the time, out of consideration of others, since a universal wearing of black would have been unthinkably depressing to the public,” read an article in a 1927 issue of Vogue titled “The New Aspect of Mourning.” “Women in America and England acquired a new view-point on this subject. They came to feel that they should not withdraw entirely from active life, except for a brief period, nor should they give themselves up to inanimate and sombre seclusion, wrapped in deep habiliments of woe.” Over the next few decades, black became integrated into everyday wardrobes, especially as Coco Chanel popularized the “Little Black Dress.” Yet somehow, an aesthetic assumption stuck that black was not OK for weddings. (To this day, weddings remain steeped in centuries old-traditions.)
However, that’s all it is: an assumption. “Can you wear black to a wedding? You definitely can!” says bridal stylist Anny Choi. “The rule feels antiquated. Black is a great staple option that you can rewear to different weddings. I actually just invested in a classic black suiting option that will be my go-to for fall weddings.” Alexandra Macon, Vogue contributor and co-founder of Over-The-Moon, agrees: "It is perfectly acceptable, and chic, to wear black to a wedding—as long as it’s festive and not funereal," she says.
