Guide to $20,000 Diamond Engagement Rings | Whiteflash (2024)

By Tiffany Moore

There is a beautiful engagement ring available for just about anyone's budget. And the more you have to set aside, the more flexibility you have to pick out a perfect, one-of-a-kind diamond ring for your bride-to-be.

If a $20,000 engagement ring falls within your budget, you'll be able to afford a diamond with a significantly above-average carat weight without compromising on its cut, color, or clarity grades. Additionally, you'll have the freedom to choose from a variety of designer settings, whether you prefer a classic solitaire or a more intricate vintage style.

Simon G. MR2395 Passion Halo Diamond Engagement Ring

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Is $20,000 a lot for an engagement ring? For the average person, almost certainly. However, while this generous budget provides ample flexibility, it's important to understand how to make the most of it.

In this article, we will provide valuable recommendations to help you get the best value for your $20,000 engagement ring - we'll also showcase a selection of exquisite options available in this price range.

  • What Kind of Engagement Ring Can $20,000 Buy?
  • Maximizing the Value and Beauty of a $20,000 Engagement Ring
  • What Does a $20,000 Engagement Ring Look Like?
  • Where to Buy a $20,000 Engagement Ring

What Kind of Engagement Ring Can $20,000 Buy?

When you have a budget this size, you'll find there's quite a variety of options. An engagement ring budget of $20,000 is much higher than the median amount spent on diamond rings. While $6,000 is the national average cost of a ring, everybody’s financial situation is different.

Thus, a budget of $20,000 provides you with ample opportunity to choose a ring that's truly stunning, customized and without compromise. Whether that's a larger diamond, an ornate designer brand setting, or a combination of the two.

Typically, the center stone costs 75% of your overall budget, the rest going towards your ring cost. A $20k diamond ring budget will allow you to look at a variety of diamonds which are guaranteed to steal the show in just about any room they’re in.


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Maximizing the Value and Beauty of a $20,000 Engagement Ring

To get the most value out of your $20,000 engagement ring, you’ll want to understand what to look for in the various categories in which diamonds are graded.

Even if you can afford a larger diamond, if you pick out one with mediocre cut, color, and clarity, it will end up being lackluster in fire, brilliance, and overall beauty - despite its size. In contrast, going too high in certain areas can lead to paying a premium for no noticeable difference.

In regards to the setting style, choice of precious metal, and cut, color, and clarity of your diamond, with $20,000 you should have few obstacles to building an impressive engagement ring. How you apportion the budget is personal, as well as what type of ring is best for your partner. However, we do have some advice to help you maximize the beauty of your engagement ring.

Cut quality:

The cut of a diamond is one factor that should not be compromised. Diamonds with mediocre cut quality will lack the dazzling optics that diamonds are known for, and they will look dull and underwhelming. With a $20,000 budget, you do NOT have to compromise the quality of the most important of the diamond 4 Cs!

Color grade:

With diamond color, depending on your taste, your aim should be to pick out a diamond that appears colorless - the classic icy color we’re all familiar with. This doesn’t mean you need to go with a technically colorless grade at the top of the scale (DEF) - it means taking a holistic approach and considering your diamond shape, metal choice and setting style and making a balanced decision.

Despite a fairly substantial price difference, it is often difficult to notice the difference between one color grade and another, especially for those at the higher end of the scale. Even with a price range of $20k, it may be a great idea to focus on the near colorless range (GHIJ) so that you can put your budget towards a higher carat weight or a more spectacular designer setting.

Clarity grade:

Like color, there is a point at which any difference in diamond clarity is not noticeable to the naked eye and does not inhibit light performance. While it may be nice to purchase a "flawless" diamond, which represents fewer than 1% of high quality diamonds, the fact is it won't look any different under normal viewing conditions to a diamond several grades lower.

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Simulated Representation of the Diamond Clarity Scale

When choosing a diamond, most people want to make sure it appears "eye-clean". The diamond has no apparent imperfections to observers. Generally, VS1-VS2 is the sweet spot for this. With VS1, you get a diamond that is at the top of the ‘Very Slightly Included’ category and has no visible inclusions. Even a trained grader has some difficulty seeing anything in a VS1 at 10X magnification. VS1 is therefore a very safe grade. Below this diamond clarity characteristics need to be evaluated on a case by case basis.

It is important to examine each diamond individually to ensure its quality. You For instance, inclusions will be more apparent in larger diamonds and diamonds with certain shapes, such as emerald cut. If you have your heart set on an IF diamond, or you can’t decide what clarity grade is best for you, this guide will tell you everything you need to know.

Carat weight:

Carat is one of the most basic physical characteristics of a diamond, but there are a few things you should understand about it. Carat weight is not the same thing as size - although there is correlation - it refers to weight. One carat is one-fifth of a gram. The actual dimensions of a diamond and its apparent size can vary significantly depending on its shape and cut quality.

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A diamond appropriate for 75% of a $20k engagement budget could range from 1 to 2.50 carats, or even higher, depending on the shape, and how it’s graded in other areas. It may even be able to get you a diamond 3 carat or larger stone if you opt for a lab-grown diamond instead.

The Fifth C – Certification

For natural diamonds It is recommended that you choose a stone with GIA or AGS certifications. You can count on the expertise of these internationally recognized laboratories for consistent and accurate grading.

Having pioneered the identification and grading of lab grown diamonds, IGI certification is also highly respected for lab grown diamonds.

With natural diamonds, all the analytical work has already been done for you when you purchase an A CUT ABOVE® super ideal diamond. With each diamond, you can be confident that it has been graded by only the most reputable laboratories, and that additional light performance analysis has been provided, verifying optimal brilliance, fire and scintillation.

Need more help understanding diamond fundamentals? Explore our Education pages to familiarize yourself with the Four C’s, or speak to one of diamond experts using our live chat service for more insight.

What Does a $20,000 Engagement Ring Look Like?

If you prioritize value for your money, you should get an engagement ring that looks bigger and more beautiful than any other ring most people generally see in their everyday life.

The center stone of a $20,000 engagement ring is typically large, high-quality, and set in a stunning setting.

A $20,000 engagement ring allows you to splurge on the setting and still have money for an impressive, high quality center diamond.

With all the options you have for a $20,000 diamond engagement ring, it’s difficult to know where to start. Here are some of our favorite high-quality designer settings, paired with some of the most spectacular diamonds we offer at Whiteflash.

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Danhov AE100 Abbraccio Diamond Engagement Ring

1.108 ct E VVS2 A CUT ABOVE®

Total cost for setting and pictured diamond: Just under $20K at the time of this writing.

With an impeccable A CUT ABOVE Collection Series diamond fully embraced by spiraling diamond pave, the Danhov AE100 in platinum creates a stunning visual feast that irresistibly draws the eye to the feature stone in the center. The winding diamond path leads to a specular finale.

The "Best of the Best", this spectacular AGS certified diamond is a world-class A CUT ABOVE® Hearts and Arrows diamond weighing 1.108 carat and featuring a clarity grade of VVS2, color grade of E, and a Light Performance grade of AGS Ideal.

Diamonds such as this can be beautifully enhanced by setting in a sleek diamond ring giving it scintillating complexity and eye catching style. Nothing is spared with this diamond and setting pairing, it’s truly world class.

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Vintage Chic with Delicate Diamonds

Clara Ashley 3 Stone Engagement Ring

2.006 ct H SI1 A CUT ABOVE®

Total cost for setting and pictured diamond: Just under $20k at the time of this writing.

Designed to thrill, the Clara Ashley 3 Stone Engagement Ring for Princess Cut Diamonds is sure to impress. Beautiful lines joins together to form three perfect hearts to hold your three brilliant diamonds. Each diamond represents a unique facet of your love story – the past, the present, and the future, creating a profound and romantic symbolism that makes this ring an exceptional choice for engagement.

Choosing your ideal center diamond is left to you after we provide you with two stunning princess diamond side stones and a Round Diamond Melee all contained in a beautifully crafted setting that dazzles.

We paired this stunning setting with a phenomenal 2.006 carat A CUT ABOVE® Princess diamond, featuring ultimate precision in diamond cut, a clarity grade of SI1, color grade of H, and a cut grade of AGS Ideal. The center diamond is truly the showstopper here and it’s easy to see why.

There is something magical about a princess cut diamond; from its brilliant sparkle to its clear, straight lines, it offers an excellent range of benefits for the smart shopper, allowing for the creation of unique ring design for women who prefer something other than a traditional round solitaire ring.

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Spectacular Trio with Diamonds For Days

Danhov LE101 Per Lei Halo Three Stone Engagement Ring

1.553 ct H SI1 A CUT ABOVE®

Total cost for setting and pictured diamond: Priced at just over $20K at the time of this writing.

A stunning triple halo design gives the Danhov LE101 three stone diamond ring a stunning visual impact. Set in yellow gold, it’s an exquisite combination of both contemporary style and an ornate design that harkens to days gone by.

Featuring the absolute finest in diamond cut, this phenomenal 1.553 carat A CUT ABOVE® Hearts and Arrows certified diamond has a clarity grade of SI1, color grade of H, and a Light Performance grade of AGS Ideal. Significantly larger than the average engagement diamond, choosing a 1.5 carat results in a finished product that is nothing short of spectacular.

What sets this diamond apart, beyond its technical excellence, is its Light Performance grade of AGS Ideal. This designation means that the diamond exhibits extraordinary fire, scintillation, and brilliance. When it catches the light, it explodes into a mesmerizing display of rainbow-like flashes and a dazzling play of light, making it a true showstopper.

It holds great monetary and emotional significance, and even under scrutiny, the diamond displays remarkable clarity and brilliance. Its larger size and stunning qualities make it a symbol of love's abundance and emotional significance. It's a remarkable investment and tribute to the enduring promise of love.

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Rose Gold Romance with Beautiful Oval Diamond Showstopper

Verragio Tradition TR180HOV Diamond Oval Halo Engagement Ring

2.04 ct I VS2 Oval Cut Loose Diamond

Total cost for setting and pictured diamond: Just over 20K at the time of this writing.

Embrace the beauty of Verragio TR180HOV Diamond Oval Halo Engagement Ring in rose gold. It features a fantastic halo that enhances a center diamond of your choice, beautifully designed to make an incredibly impactful statement. Verragio engagement ring designs use 20k rose gold, for an utterly opulent and durable design.

We paired it with a spectacular 2.04 carat GIA certified Oval diamond, featuring a clarity grade of VS2 and color grade of I. Rose gold can help diamonds with a lower color grade appear whiter by comparison, so dropping down a few color grades into the near colorless range and putting the savings into increasing carat weight instead can be a good strategy for maximizing overall value

Rose gold is an unconventional choice, but one that’s undeniably beautiful. It has been used in jewelry for generations, but has had a resurgence in popularity in recent years, coveted for its flattering skin tones. Although rose gold naturally lends itself to vintage styles, a surge in contemporary styles has also been inspired by its revival.

In addition to suiting a wide range of skin tones, rose gold jewelry also has an unsurpassed styling versatility. This subtle metal is compatible with other precious metals, including platinum, yellow gold, and white gold.

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Where to Buy a $20,000 Engagement Ring

Ultimately, whether $20,000 is considered a reasonable budget for an engagement ring is a personal and financial decision that should be made with careful consideration.

When you have the budget for a $20,000 diamond ring, it is more than enough to splurge on an impressive designer setting, a one of a kind super ideal cut diamond, or a center diamond with impressive size.

As a result of the recommendations outlined in this post, you should have a good understanding of what $20,000 can get you and where your money would be best prioritized.

It is the smartest move to shop online for diamonds in order to find the best selection and best value. Doing so you'll have access to a much wider variety of diamonds than you'd find in a local jewelry store.

We pride ourselves on working within all budgets, but we also know that the desire for the best can exceed all other considerations. Due to our dedication to this standard since our establishment in 2000, we continue to carry an impressive selection of natural diamonds that will delight even the most knowledgeable diamond enthusiasts.

Notably, our A CUT ABOVE® Collection Series showcases diamonds of extreme rarity – clean, colorless, precision-cut diamonds featuring the very top gemological grades across the board.

These exquisite natural diamonds are among the rarest and most beautiful in the world. These rare diamonds with their ultimate pedigree and unmatched sparkle and purity are destined to become timeless heirlooms if you have the budget for it.

There is more to buying a diamond than just allocating a budget and buying a commodity. A number of factors must be taken into account when making an informed decision. Hence, it is vital to choose a jeweler who is well-reviewed, knowledgeable, and most importantly, eager to hear all about your diamond desires when you are looking to buy, in order to achieve your personal goals and get the most out of your budget. When it comes to buying your engagement ring, let Whiteflash be your first choice!

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Guide to $20,000 Diamond Engagement Rings | Whiteflash? ›

A diamond appropriate for 75% of a $20k engagement budget could range from 1 to 2.50 carats, or even higher, depending on the shape, and how it's graded in other areas. It may even be able to get you a diamond 3 carat or larger stone if you opt for a lab-grown diamond

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Is $20 000 too much for an engagement ring? ›

The answer to whether $20,000 is a lot for an engagement ring depends on your personal financial situation, preferences, and what you believe the ring represents. It's a significant amount of money for many people, but it's essential to find a balance that aligns with your values and budget.

How many carats can you get for $20000? ›

$20,000 – $30,000

In this price range, you can expect to find excellent quality stones up to 2.10 carats. The 2.10 – 3.10 carat stones in this price range will likely have a clarity grade of SI1 or lower -OR- a color grade of “H” or lower.

What is a respectable amount for an engagement ring? ›

While engagement rings are a pricy investment, the usual cost tends to be below $10,000, with a national average of $6,000, according to The Knot's 2022 Jewelry and Engagement Study.

What is an acceptable amount to pay for an engagement ring? ›

How much should you spend on an engagement ring? According to the classic engagement ring cost rule, you should spend three months' salary on an engagement ring for your loved one – after all, they'll be wearing that ring for the rest of their life.

What is the 3 month rule for ring? ›

To calculate the 3-month rule, one would simply take their gross monthly salary and multiply it by three. This amount would then be used as a guideline for the engagement ring budget.

How much should an engagement ring cost if you make 100k? ›

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How many carats is impressive? ›

When asked, most women will say that a 2-carat engagement ring is big. If she were to see what we can do with 2-carats of diamonds she'd be very impressed! The central diamond's average size in an engagement ring is around 0.9 carats with a total diamond weight of about 1.3 carats.

Is a 2 carat diamond considered to be big? ›

A 2-carat diamond is considered large compared to the average size of diamonds used for engagement rings. The average diamond size for engagement rings is around 1.0 to 1.5 carats. Therefore, a 2-carat diamond stands out significantly and offers a more pronounced appearance on the finger.

How many carats is considered big? ›

A big diamond is any diamond with a carat weight of 3 carats and above. A 4 carat diamond, 5 carat diamond ring, or beyond are all considered large diamond rings. VRAI can cut diamonds to order for engagement rings up to 10 carats in 30 different shapes as part of our Cut for You™ bespoke diamond experience.

What is too much to spend on engagement ring? ›

While there is truly no set price cap when it comes to buying an engagement ring, spending beyond your means and going into debt is something that should be avoided. Remember: Weddings can oftentimes be expensive, and you'll want to save a bit of money for other moments during your journey to the aisle.

Is $15000 too much for an engagement ring? ›

If your budget for an engagement ring is as high as $15,000, you'll be able to focus on personal style preferences, more so than simply figuring out what you can afford that fits your budget. In our article discussing how much should you spend on an engagement ring, we note that 15k is well above the average consumer.

Is $10 000 enough for an engagement ring? ›

Perhaps one that offers a bit more than just a diamond? If so, then $10,000 is an excellent budget to work with. You may have heard by now that $10,000 engagement rings are becoming more and more popular. The average of spending $5,000 on your engagement ring may soon be a thing of the past.

Is $30,000 a lot for an engagement ring? ›

Diamond cut, weight, and quality are the biggest factors in an engagement ring's final cost. With a $30000 budget, you can easily find a ring with an impressive diamond of high color and clarity grades. However, the wide range of options available for this price may be overwhelming.

How much should an engagement ring cost a 3 month salary? ›

Three months' salary looks very different for different people. Think about it. If you make $100,000 a year, you're supposed to spend $25,000 on an engagement ring. If you make $200,000, the ring clocks in at $50,0000.

How many carats should an engagement ring be? ›

The average engagement ring diamond size in the United States is between 1.08 - 1.2 carats. However, the average carat weight varies depending on age and location. For instance, millennials tend to spend less on diamonds than older generations, making their average diamond size lower.

What is the 3 month salary rule for engagement rings? ›

There is a widely cited “rule” that you should spend three months' salary on an engagement ring. This stems from a 1930s De Beers advertising campaign that convinced men to spend roughly one month's salary on this purchase. By the 1980s, one month's salary was no longer the rule.

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